Fatoumatta: The current debate on homosexuality in the Gambia is extremely vexing because it is an exhibition of deep subterfuge in our society today. And our collective dishonesty is amazing.
Blind homophobia does not help. It is time for Gambians to look at the mirror. Muslims do not eat pork out of deep conviction. Muslims will not start eating pork simply because Americans are slaughtering pigs in their droves and exporting bacon all over the world.
Fatoumatta: It appears that the Gambia is a society largely built on deception. It is this deception that facilitates corruption of morals, of persons and government. If we are unable to face up to issues, we choose to sweep things under the carpet. So, there is the relatively sane Gambia that we portray publicly, then there is the other Gambia which is under the carpet. A duplicity of morals.
On the gay and lesbian issue, in public some pundits write things like “this is disgusting and un-African and not a critical issue for discussion.” Under the carpet, we have a vibrant openly LGBT community, including male and female sex workers plying their trade on streets of Greater Banjul Area, and around the Tourist Development Area under the nose of the Police.
Fatoumatta: Under the carpet, the law has not expressly criminalized homosexuality. The law only places criminal sanction on “homosexual acts.” A publicly gay person cannot be arrested, save for when they are caught in the “act.” In fact, we are currently facing the prospect of the courts repealing sections of the Penal Code that criminalize sexual acts against the order of nature.
Fatoumatta: Evidence has shown that a number of those who are loudest with anti-gay sloganeering are the very clients of these men and women, for they would not be on the streets if they are not making money.
Fatoumatta: Members of the LGBT community are not from the moon. They are sons, daughters, sisters, brothers, friends of the same Gambians, including politicians, religious leaders, hiding under “religion” and “culture” to create a very unproductive culture of homophobia, which does not allow people to discuss genuine issues openly.
Former President Yahya Jammeh tried legislation, murder and brute force, but that did not remove the LGBT community from the country. Singapore, a nation known for strict application of the law has been unable to contain homosexuality using the law. The legal regime criminalizes it, but in practice the Singaporean government has simply turned a blind eye, although the law and occasional government action restricts the expression of LGBT rights.
Even in places with the strict sharia law, like Pakistan for example, these minorities exist. Matters of morality and acts done in private are extremely difficult to police and prosecute. And even in cases where prosecution succeeds, it simply doesn’t reduce that which is considered “immoral.” The same African politicians vehemently opposed to LGBT communities are already acknowledging that they are a critical minority and already designing and executing sexual healthcare and HIV prevention programs targeted at them.
Fatoumatta: The argument that the West is “imposing” values on Africans is mute. In fact, I consider it an insult. Muslims do not eat pork, not because someone told them not to, but because of deep religious conviction. Equally, they will not start eating pork because Americans are slaughtering pigs and exporting bacon. Who says that Africans are automatons? Why do Africans portray themselves as behavioral robots of the West?
If we cherish and believe in our so called “culture” and “religion(s),” why are we unable to resist values which we consider un-African or which go against values we claim to “hold dear”? Why do we blame third parties, for individual choices sections of our society makes? Are we then to assume that we are in the first place morally bankrupt and thus our ready tendency to hide behind “religion” and “culture” and the argument that “third parties” are “imposing” things on us when faced moral dilemma? When did Africans throw away their right to choose?
Fatoumatta: As a straight African liberal male who thinks that we not dealing with issues, but instead choosing the cover and convenience of “morality,” “religion” and “culture” to mask what is truly happening in our society. I often ask those who engage on the LGBT debate from an abstract point of view this question: What if your son came home today and told you he was gay? Would you pick a shotgun shoot him dead? If your sister returned home lesbian, would you dig a six-foot grave and bury her? There are genuine issues that a section of Gambian families confronts daily.
A conflict between traditional values and emerging contemporary values, that many times are the opposite of our social conditioning. The reality is societal norms and values are changing. Running away from that fact would be an exercise in foolishness.
The question should be, for the majority inclined at maintaining traditional family values, how do we deal with the challenges posed by the changes brought about by today’s liberal world? These are complex issues that we need to openly discuss